Your questions answered.
Commonly asked questions.
What is the ordering process?
STEP 1: PLACE YOUR ORDER
Choose which jewellery setting you'd like and select your metal and sizing options.
In the design section please select what your inclusions are and choose the placement of your inclusions from the options in the examples.
STEP 2: SEND YOUR INCLUSIONS
You'll receive an order confirmation email with the postage instructions and address (make sure you check your junk folder!). You can also find the postage instructions here
If you've purchased a postage kit, it will be posted within three business days.
STEP 3: YOUR KEEPSAKE IS CREATED
You'll receive an email when your inclusions have arrived safely and the turn around time for your jewellery will begin.
You can track the progress of your order anytime via our Order Status page
Once finished, your jewellery will make it's way home to you via tracked post.
Can I order from outside of Australia?
Yes! We have a permit that allows me to accept orders Worldwide.
If you place an order internationally, you'll receive an email with detailed postage instructions, our address and a copy of the permit to attach to your package for customs.
Don't worry, it's straightforward.
What is the preservation process?
Your milk goes through a heat and chemical preservation process that prevents any bacterial or fungal growth. Once it's preserved and set in our stone material your milk will never "go bad". It's just as hygienic as any other piece of jewellery.
What can I add to my jewellery?
All keepsake jewellery can hold anything special to you, including:
- Breast milk/Colostrum
- Formula
- Ashes
- Hair/Pet Fur/Feathers
- Dried Flowers
- Umbilical stump/Placenta
- Pregnancy test strips/lines/lids
- Flowers/Sand/Soil/Fabric
- Almost anything else
Can I add multiple inclusions to one stone?
Yes, you can add multiple inclusions to your keepsake stone, e.g. milk + hair + umbilical cord.
You can also combine milk from different breastfeeding journeys or add both breastmilk and colostrum.
Can I change my order?
Once you have placed your order no amendments can be made to your design. Please make sure you input your design request correctly.
What kind of aftercare is involved with Milk & Stone keepsake jewellery?
Your stone has a similar hardness to glass, is scratch resistant, shatter-proof, waterproof and non-yellowing. Although your jewellery is suitable for everyday wear, it's important to follow these care instructions to keep your jewellery looking beautiful:
1. Always remove your jewellery before swimming in chlorinated water. Chlorine is corrosive to precious metals.
2. Avoid contact with anything that may stain your jewellery such as hair dye, turmeric, fake tan, etc.
3. Avoid contact with harsh solvents (e.g. acids). These may dull the shine of your stone.
4. Please do not take rings to a jeweller to be resized. The heat used to do this will damage your stone.
5. Avoid digging sharp objects such as fingernails directly into your stone.
6. To keep your keepsake looking its best, be mindful of wearing it during activities where it may get bumped such as going to the gym. If wearing everyday, polishing monthly with a cloth will help keep its shine.
How can I obtain my ring size?
We recommend having your ring size measured through your local jewellery store. This is often a complimentary service.
Please avoid using a print-at-home sizing tool as these can be very inaccurate.
What is the turnaround time of my order?
All jewellery is handmade to order. Our turnaround time fluctuates depending on circumstances outside of our normal operation conditions. You can find an up-to-date turn around time on our Order Status page.
What if I move after placing my order?
This is okay! You can send us an email with your order number referenced to hello@milkandstone.com.au
We will update your order to be sent to your new address.
Milk & Motherhood jewellery.
How much milk do I need to send?
We recommend sending 10-15ml of breastmilk.
If you struggle to collect this much it's okay, we've made stones with as little as 2ml.
Do I need to send fresh or frozen milk?
You can send fresh or frozen/expired milk. If you're sending frozen milk, please make sure to defrost your milk before posting.
We've made stones with milk that had been frozen for over 10 years!
Will my milk go bad in transit?
No, your milk will not spoil in transit if it has been correctly packaged (inside a sterile milk storage bag with no air trapped).
Dose milk need to stay cold in transit?
No, as long as you send it in a sterile storage bag (just a normal one used for expressed milk), your milk doesn't need to stay cold in the post. When packaged properly, breastmilk can travel in the post for many weeks and still be completely fine to use in your jewellery.
I don't have a sterile storage bag, can I use a ziplock bag/jar/container?
No, it's important to only send your breastmilk/colostrum in a sterile milk storage bag with as much air taken out as possible (all regular milk storage bags are sterile).
If your milk is sent in anything else it may spoil in the post when it becomes warm.
Do you keep the leftover preserved milk?
Yes, we will keep any leftover preserved milk on file for 12 months. This is in case of any more orders you'd like to make or if your stone gets damaged while being worn daily.
Ashes & Memorial jewellery.
How much ashes do I need to send?
We recommend sending 1/2 teaspoon of ashes. Any ashes that aren't used for your piece are posted back to you with your completed jewellery.
How much hair do I need to send?
A pinch about 5mm thick.
How much of their ashes can be seen in infused metal?
You can see ashes throughout the piece. It approximates about 5% of the piece.
Shipping questions.
Can I send my inclusions from outside of Australia?
Yes! We have a permit that allows us to accept orders Worldwide.
If you place an order internationally, you'll receive an email with detailed postage instructions, our address and a copy of the permit to attach to your package for customs.
Don't worry, it's straightforward.
If you'd like to check the cost of posting your inclusions to us, we're based in North Richmond, NSW 2754, Australia
How long will it take to receive my order?
Our turnaround time begins when we receive your inclusions, not from date of placing your order.
The turnaround time does vary, however under normal operative conditions we have a 8-10 week turnaround time.
For an up-to-date turnaround time please refer to our Order Status page.
Is posting my inclusions safe?
Yes, posting your inclusions is safe but not without risk of loss if you're not vigilant.
We always recommend sending your inclusions with a tracking number.
We do not recommend posting the last of any inclusions.
Product quality & guarantees.
How do I know it's my inclusions in the jewellery?
The authenticity of your keepsake is taken very seriously.
It's important to label your inclusions with your name and order number (not receipt number) before sending them.
When your inclusions arrive they're attached to your order form and they stay with your form throughout the entire process.
Will my stone ever turn yellow?
Our product is completely non-yellowing and does not undergo the Ambering process that resin undergoes from exposure to UV light.
For more information about our product and our guarantees please refer to our terms of service.
Is my stone waterproof?
Our product is 100% waterproof, you can wear your jewellery in the shower!
We do recommend removing your keepsake before entering chlorinated water as this is corrosive to the metal component of your keepsake.
Can my jewellery get wet?
Yes your keepsake can get wet. However, we do recommend exercising caution when wearing your jewellery in environments such as rivers or oceans as you may loose your precious piece.
Please keep in mind that sterling silver and gold-filled jewellery can tarnish with water exposure and may require more frequent polishing.
What is the difference between Gold Filled and Solid Gold?
Our gold filled range is of good quality and is suitable for daily wear however will not last as long as solid gold keepsakes. Gold filled keepsakes can last for 10-30 years however scratches cannot be repaired as this repair process will expose the base metal.
Gold plated keepsakes cannot be replated, our stones are made into the keepsake setting and cannot be removed. Replating your gold filled keepsake will damage the stone.
Solid gold/platinum are the highest quality keepsake. These options are best for heirloom pieces and perfect for everyday wear. Solid metals do not need replating and scratches can be repaired.
Our silver, solid gold and platinum rage do not tarnish.
Can I wear my jewellery everday?
You can wear your Milk & Stone jewellery everyday. Your stone has a similar hardness to glass, is scratch resistant, shatter-proof, waterproof and non-yellowing. Although your jewellery is suitable for everyday wear, it is important to follow these care instructions to keep your jewellery looking beautiful:
1. Always remove your jewellery before swimming in chlorinated water. Chlorine is corrosive to precious metals.
2. Avoid contact with anything that may to stain your jewellery such as hair dye, turmeric, fake tan, etc.
3. Avoid contact with harsh solvents (e.g. acids). These may dull the shine of your stone.
4. Please do not take rings to a jeweller to be resized. The heat used to do this will damage your stone.
5. Avoid digging sharp objects such as fingernails directly into your stone.
Can my ring be resized?
No, keepsake rings cannot be resized. Please do not take rings to a jeweller to be resized. The heat used to do this will damage your stone.
Is your product material safe?
Our stone material has undergone laboratory testing. Our product is non-toxic & food safe. It is safe for your skin and your little ones.
Returns questions.
Can I get a refund?
Cancellations requested within 24 hours of placing an order will qualify for a refund to the value of your order minus all fees associated.
Cancellations requested after 24 hours of placing an order qualify for store credit to the value of your order.
Please be advised that once Milk & Stone receives your inclusions, cancellations will not be eligible for refunds or store credit.
For more information about refunds please refer to our Policies page.
I didn't receive what I asked for, what do I do?
If you think there is an issue with your keepsake please contact us via email within 7 days of receiving your keepsake. Please send pictures of your concerns and reference your order number (not receipt number).
Issues reported after 7 days will be subject to a Milk & Stone assessment. This may require you to post your jewellery to us at your own expense for examinations before any talk of resolution can take place.
Customer reviews.
Let customers speak for us
from 50 reviewsI picked up my pendants from the PO earlier today, and to say I love them would be an understatement. Thank you so much ❤️❤️ They were so well worth the wait.
The ring you made is something I will treasure forever, thank you so much for doing what you do🩵
I just received my ring and I am seriously so thankful to you for making such a beautiful keepsake for me. This is such a beautiful reminder ❤️ you are amazing
I cannot recommend Lauren and her company, Milk and Stone, enough. I sent in my milk (from the US!) while I was still nursing my toddler and received my ring just a few weeks after we officially stopped. She made the process simple and easy with frequent communication and I am forever grateful for this beautiful keepsake I have to remember this special time of nurturing my baby. Completely worth the wait, thank you Lauren!
Seeing my little love drift off to sleep while breastfeeding is pure magic. This beautiful keepsake will always remind me how special this time is.
Thank you so much.
4 years and 5 pregnancies later we were blessed with our boy. Unfortunately my breastfeeding journey wasn't as long as I would have liked but now I have a beautiful keepsake to remember that special time.
I absolutely love my ring with my mums ashes I feel no matter where she is I still have her close.
Hey Lauren,
Thank you so much for creating me such a beautiful keepsake to remind me of our little baby we never got to meet. In the time of you creating my keepsake we found out we are having another baby and I wanted to wait until I received my keepsake to wear it in our announcement photos. It’s completely perfect. I’ve had so many compliments from people who were completely unaware that these special things could be kept in a keepsake. You’re changing lives 💗🩵
Hey Lauren,
Thank you so much for creating me such a beautiful keepsake to remind me of our little baby we never got to meet. In the time of you creating my keepsake we found out we are having another baby and I wanted to wait until I received my keepsake to wear it in our announcement photos. It’s completely perfect. I’ve had so many compliments from people who were completely unaware that these special things could be kept in a keepsake. You’re changing lives 💗🩵
I was so impressed with your communication through the entire process! It was amazing! Thank you so much!😊
Hi Lauren,
Thank you for creating such a beautiful piece for me; it’s even better than I could have imagined.
In a week & a half I will have been exclusively breastfeeding my little love for 6 months & I’m so glad that I now have something to symbolise how special this journey is. Thanks again 🥰
Breastfeeding didn’t come naturally to me or my baby, but we learned together. Each session felt a bit easier as we found our rhythm. Our bond grew stronger with each passing day, and I found a new appreciation for my resilience.
I could not be happier with my keepsake necklace. The customer service was outstanding and I got updated throughout the entire process. It turned out exactly as I had hoped and I would highly recommend.
My friend and I had our first babies two months apart and I chose Milk & Stone to create breastmilk keepsakes for us to cherish our journeys. The process is very easy to follow because Lauren provides clear and detailed instructions on how to prepare and ship the inclusions for the jewelry. I especially appreciated receiving email updates with what part of the process the jewelry was in.
There are countless makers out there for breastmilk jewelry but I found that M&s was the only one to truly offer a waterproof and non yellowing option.
The end product is dainty, beautiful, and of high quality.
Like with any exquisite, handcrafted piece of art
- it is worth the wait. Thanks a million, Milk & Stone team!
I wanted a breastmilk ring to represent my own perseverance and the bond shared between me and and my daughter. After doing some research, I decided upon Milk & Stone because of their waterproof jewelry - most companies don't have true waterproof stones. Not only that, but they also create beautiful pieces that will last a lifetime. The process of sending in milk is very easy, and they're quick to respond to any questions you have. It took about 3 months total from sending in milk to receiving the final product. I couldn't be happier with my purchase, it's truly beautiful and timeless!
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